Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are reportedly experiencing a challenging time in their relationship as the Duke of Sussex struggles with homesickness and a sense of disconnection from his former life in the UK. According to royal biographer Tom Quinn, Harry is “bored” in America and is finding it difficult to adjust to his new life in Montecito, California, where the couple resides with their two children, Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet.
The Sussexes made the monumental decision to step down from their royal duties in 2020, relocating to the United States shortly after. However, Quinn suggests that the transition has not been entirely smooth for Harry. In an interview with The Mirror, Quinn explained, “Harry is increasingly bored and looking back across the Atlantic where most of his army and school friends still live and whom he never sees because they won’t visit him in the States because they find Meghan difficult.”
The move has, according to Quinn, come at a significant personal cost to Harry, who has had to “sacrifice” his close friendships in the UK. The royal expert paints a picture of a Duke who, despite the allure of life in California, is grappling with a sense of isolation and a lack of purpose. “After he’s taken the dog for a walk and maybe gone for a drive, he has nothing to do other than support Meghan,” Quinn said.
On the other hand, Meghan Markle appears to be focused on different priorities, with Quinn suggesting that she desires a partner who shares her drive and determination to succeed. “Meghan, on the other hand, needs someone who has serious determination to succeed in the world,” he noted, adding that this disparity between their needs has “led to huge tensions” in their relationship.
The royal couple’s contrasting outlooks on their life together seem to be contributing to a growing strain. While Meghan is reportedly focused on building their brand and establishing their influence in the U.S., Harry’s longing for his old life and his friends back in the UK is becoming more pronounced.
These insights into the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s private life highlight the complexities they face as they navigate their new roles outside of the royal family. The reported tensions also reflect the challenges of reconciling their individual aspirations with the demands of their unique circumstances, as they continue to shape their future away from the British royal fold.