Source: MEGA
Jennifer Lopez is reportedly struggling to understand how Ben Affleck’s recent actions, or lack thereof, are meant to protect her. According to insiders, the couple’s recent behavior toward one another has sparked concern among their close circle.
As fans know, Lopez and Affleck did not celebrate their second wedding anniversary together. This omission was quickly followed by another blow when the Selena actress was seemingly ignored by Affleck on her 55th birthday. While Lopez was celebrating her milestone in the Hamptons, Affleck was busy buying a new home.
“The fact that he bought a new home while she was celebrating her birthday in the Hamptons was really humiliating for her,” an insider shared with OK! Magazine. Lopez reportedly felt snubbed and embarrassed by Affleck’s actions during what should have been a celebratory time.
The source also elaborated on the couple’s reportedly “complicated” relationship dynamic, shedding light on the confusion Lopez is facing. “Plus, one day he has his ring on, and the next day it’s off — it’s like he’s gaslighting her,” the insider said, suggesting that Affleck’s inconsistent behavior has left Lopez questioning their relationship.
Another source expressed shock over Affleck’s neglect of these important days. “The way Ben ignored their anniversary, then her birthday, while having the tenacity to claim he’s protecting her somehow … it was shocking,” the source revealed. Lopez, who has always valued special moments with loved ones, is said to be deeply affected by this treatment.
“It makes J.Lo sick to her stomach,” the insider added, echoing the concern among their inner circle. “People in their circle are wondering how it’s gotten to this point and become so toxic.”
In spite of the tension, Lopez seemingly tried to extend an olive branch. According to the Daily Mail, she made a low-key visit to Affleck’s rental home in Brentwood shortly after the birthday snub, signaling an attempt to smooth things over. Whether or not this visit will mend their reportedly strained relationship remains to be seen.
